What are my parents problem?!?

MY PARENTS THINK I NEED HELP JUST BECUZ I LIKE/DATE GANG MEMBERS! WHATS WRONG WITH LIKEING A GANG MEMBER?WHATS WRONG WITH DATING A GANG MEMBER. I LIVE IN OAKLAND, CA. IVE DATED GUYS FROM DIFFERENT GANGS AND IM STILL ALIVE. I HAVE DATED GUYS FROM THE SURENOS AND THE 9400. WHATS SO BAD ABOUT GANGS? I DON'T CARE WHAT MY PARENTS SAY BUT IM GONNA KEEP DATING A GANG MEMBER AND NO ONE CAN STOP ME