My Friend F*cked up my Life! What can I do to fix this!?

The first thing you can do is to tell your pseudo friend that you do not appreciate her telling him about your personal business and that you will not trust her with your personal information again. Second, call your friends, leave messages. Ask them if you have done something to make them not want to talk to you. If they were your friends and accepted you for who you were, they would not have been swayed by one persons' opinions . Sometimes guys shy away from girls that have ex' issues. This could be a little of it. Guys dont' like drama, and don't want to be part of it. Call your friend who had the crush on you, and apologize for not telling him about your ex, but you really don't owe him an explanation. You don't have to explain your situation. Obviously you aren't hanging out with your ex anymore right? I think the main thing with these guys is that they're just giving you some time to get your stuff sorted out. Let them know that you miss them and ask them all to come over, or just a few at a time, for a bbq, or a football game, or something like that. A guy environment, and just hang out with them again. They will get over it, and you will have your friends back. If they still act as though they don't want anything to do with you, there are plenty of people out there. People go through stages where they are not able to find a social circle, and that is very lonely and frustrating, but you will find true friends. Now you know not to trust someone with your personal information. I have been through this, and now a group of my friends are acting as though they want nothing to do with me. I am married and have 2 kids, so it's not as though I don't have anyone to be around, but it is very frustrating. You just need to communicate with them. Even if it means showing up at their house, and saying you'd like to talk. Just decide if they are worth it, or if it was just a way to p your time, and get over your ex. Best wishes to you!!!